A few years back a set of experiences changed how I spend most my waking hours, playing a large role in why I’m pursuing ordained ministry. First I was promoted at work (a positive, right?). A couple months later a good friend passed away far too young. A few weeks later my mother-in-law passed away too. You can read about this in more detail in an earlier series, Why I Walked if you’re curious.
Long story short all this change messed me up pretty good, which led to many sleepless nights. For six weeks I averaged three hours of sleep a night. Over time this took a toll.
Not being able to sleep, I went to a psychiatrist to get sleeping pills. When that didn’t work, and thinking my challenges were tied to focus, I added in prescription medication for ADHD. When that didn’t work I added in anxiety pills for particularly stressful moments of life. When all of that failed, I finally went to a psychologist – really should have started there in the first place – and was diagnosed with a major depressive episode. Within days the dark fog of depression began to lift and I began to heal. I began to live again.
While all this was going on I also tried another treatment: God. I read scripture, searching for answers in ancient wisdom. I read Christian books, thinking some nugget of Truth would leap off the page. I prayed – A LOT – begging God to take this ailment away. Each attempt the answer as I understood it was the same. God was silent. I was alone.
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I know now God was with me through the depths of depression that included pills, prayers and pain. God was present through the love and patience of my wife, who both supported and challenged me, and most importantly stayed by my side when times were tough.
God appeared through phone calls from friends and hugs of empathy, from people determined to be present in my pain.
God showed Godself in the wisdom of a psychologist, who within 15 minutes spoke with clarity. “I know this problem” she said confidently, “You are clinically depressed. We can do something about that.”
Thinking about all those sleepless nights filled with tears I realize I was not alone at all. God was there. In that space. In that place. God hadn’t fallen asleep on me. We both had insomnia.
Oh yes… the dark night of the soul. I know it well. It’s never fun, but as you’ve stated so well it’s a valuable learning experience. I’m glad you came to realize God was with you however silent God seemed to be. I sounds like you endured a lot of pain and I respect you for facing it head on. You’re depth of character is for the better having spent time in the trenches of life. Good to be in your company.
Thank you for sharing your journey. You have done a beautiful job of telling your story. I can see God’s “footprints” all the way through it. Blessings.
Thank you for sharing this story. Yes, God is the omni-insomniac, the one who never sleeps. As the ancient wisdom of scripture attests: “Indeed, he who watches over Israel never slumbers nor sleeps” (Ps. 121:4).
a great line — the “Omni insomniac”!
The Omni insomniac, love it! Sometime down the road will have to tweak the story and add in that along with the scripture reference from Psalms, great tie ins. Thanks all for the great feedback, appreciate it!